An elderly carpenter was ready to retire. He told his employer-contractor
of his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely
life with his wife enjoying his extended family. He would miss the paycheck,
but he needed to retire. They could get by.
The contractor was sorry to see his good worker go and asked if he could
build just one more house as a personal favor. The carpenter said yes,
but in time it was easy to see that his heart was not in his work. He
resorted to shoddy workmanship and used inferior materials. It was an
unfortunate way to end his career.
When the carpenter finished his work and the builder came to inspect
the house, the contractor handed the front-door key to the carpenter. "This
is your house," he said, "my gift to you."
What a shock! What a shame! If he had only known he was building his
own house, he would have done it all so differently. Now he had to live
in the home he had built none too well.
So it is with us. We build our lives in a distracted way, reacting rather
than acting, willing to put up less than the best. At important points
we do not give the job our best effort. Then with a shock we look at
the situation we have created and find that we are now living in the
house we have built. If we had realized, we would have done it differently.
Think of yourself as the carpenter. Think of your life as the house.
Each day you hammer a nail, place a board or erect a wall, build wisely. It
is the only life you will ever build. Even if you live it for only one
day more, that day deserves to be lived graciously and with dignity.