In his autobiography Days of Grace (Random House Audio, 1993), tennis
great Arthur Ashe relates a defining incident that occurred when he was
17 years old. He was playing in a tournament in West Virginia. As was
often the case, he was the only contestant of color in the tournament.
One night, some of the kids trashed a cabin. They absolutely destroyed
it and then decided to say that Arthur was responsible. The incident
was reported in the newspapers; Arthur denied his involvement, but the
boys would not change their story. The worst part for Arthur was worrying
about what his father would say and do. He eventually made the dreaded
phone call.
As he surmised, his father had already learned of the vandalism. His
father's tone was grim. He asked Arthur only one question. "Arthur
Junior," he asked, "all I want to know is...were you mixed
up in that mess?"
Arthur answered, "No, Daddy, I wasn't."
His father never asked about it again. Arthur learned that day why he
had always been encouraged to tell the truth. There would come a time
when he must be believed, and this was such a time. Because he had
already earned his trust and respect, he knew his father believed him.
From that day on he was determined, above all else, to live a life
of integrity.
Unfortunately, we find notable examples of modern leaders in every field
who give low priority to personal integrity. But we do not need saints
- we need people like you. People who will be known for their integrity.
People who will determine to be their best selves. People who daily earn
the trust and respect of others, regardless of their age or station in
life. People who insist on the importance of character.
Our world does not need another saint. But it needs you.
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